These 10 home date ideas will make the most of your lockdown Valentine’s Day

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  • From holding your own outdoor cinema to throwing each other cookery classes, these home date ideas can make your lockdown romantic...

    Home date ideas have never been more essential with relationships in self-isolation now being the norm.

    Dating during a lockdown is something few of us have experienced (or have prepared for). And yet here we are.

    Couples living apart are having to get creative with virtual home date ideas, with a lot of effort going into sending each other letters and holding romantic Zoom dates. But for those who are in lockdown together, there are no excuses.

    Valentine’s Day is fast approaching, and we’re all panic-Googling DIY home date ideas and perfect Valentine’s ‘gifts for her’ in the absence of leaving our houses.

    But how romantic can you actually make a home date after you’ve been quarantining in the same space for essentially a year? Don’t worry we’ve got you covered.

    While experts are giving tips on mentally preparing for Lockdown 3.0, we’re giving you home date ideas to survive a lockdown Valentine’s Day.

    10 home date ideas to survive lockdown

    1. Outdoor cinema

    As far as home date ideas goes, this does require having a bit of outdoor space, but if you do, why not turn your patio into an outdoor cinema? Whether you have a projector that you can rig up, a laptop you can bring outside or a TV you can push against the window, you should have all the technical equipment you need. And as for the furnishings – deckchairs, bean bags, rugs and plenty of cushions are a must. Given the snow, ski jackets, warm drinks and hot water bottles are also encouraged!

    2. Candlelit dinner

    You don’t have to go to a restaurant to have a candlelit dinner. You can also enjoy it from the confines of your own home. All you need is the kitchen or dining room to yourself, candles (essential) and dinner (even more essential). But while it sounds fancy and like a lot of work, it really doesn’t need to be, with a particularly romantic millennial trend being a ‘candlelit takeaway’ or food delivery box.

    As long as you get dressed up and have a couple of hours to yourselves to engage in date conversation, then you’re doing it properly.

    3. Breakfast in bed

    Home date ideas don’t get easier than breakfast in bed. While it isn’t strictly a ‘date night’ activity, making an event out of breakfast in bed could be a fun date idea for a lazy morning. Breakfast in bed is one of the most luxurious aspects of a hotel stay and yet most of us never enjoy it at home. Treating your other half to breakfast in bed is maybe the most romantic gesture.

    But which breakfast essentials do you need to achieve the perfect breakfast in bed? Coffee (obvs), tea and some orange juice for drinks. And for the food, Eggs Benedict/ Royale are always winners, as are pancakes and waffles.

    **TOP TIP: This writer’s partner once made her a hotel-style breakfast in bed menu to tick the desired breakfast items, hot drinks and time of arrival and leave hanging on her door. 

    4. Cookery class

    Lockdown has turned a lot of us into chefs and bakers. In fact, sourcing flour is now probably harder than sourcing Glastonbury tickets. In order to have some quality time with your other half, why not bake or cook something together? Chefs across the world are holding tutorials on their social media accounts, and there has never been more time than right now to give it a try.

    Our personal recommendation in terms of cooking tutorials for home date ideas? Gordon Ramsay’s carbonara, Gizzi Erskine’s stuffed crust pizza and Jason Atherton’s chicken and chorizo casserole. Or alternatively, if you’re going for Instagrammable trends – Meghan Markle style banana bread and Swedish cinnamon buns all the way.

    5. Watch the sunset

    During our busy commuter lives we often miss things as simple as sunsets, but for those of us who are quarantined for the foreseeable, this could be a great time to rediscover them. Grab your loved one, a couple of glasses of Sauvignon Blanc/ beers and wrap up warm. Then, whether it’s in your garden or in a nearby park, go and take in the sunset over a cold drink. Bliss.

    6. In-house spa

    It will probably be months before we enjoy a luxurious London facial again so why not train your other half to get good at giving at-home treatments. Have a romantic spa day. We’re talking manicures, pedicures, a luxurious bubble bath and follow our at-home tips from a top facialist to get your glow on.

    If you’re even feeling daring, you could treat each other to hair cuts, but we wouldn’t judge you if you skipped that last one.

    7. Have a picnic

    A backyard picnic is as romantic as home date ideas get, but given that it has been snowing this month, an indoor picnic could be the best plan of action. For the full effect, you’ll need a picnic blanket to sit on and a hamper of homemade snacks. We’re talking sausage rolls, scotch eggs, sandwiches, and even a bottle of homemade lemonade, complete with jam jars as cups.

    8. Massage night

    ‘Massage’ as a search term has been trending over the lockdown 3.0, with working at home from sofas and arm chairs giving a lot of us lower back pain. So while it could be months until we can book ourselves in for a hot stone treatment, a fun date night could be learning and practicing massage on each other.

    It’s fun (tick), it’s romantic (tick), you learn a new skill (tick) and you get a massage out of it (HUGE TICK). Our advice? Oh, and do make sure to read our guide to tantric sex, while you’re here…

    9. Keep Christmas going

    As far as home date ideas go, this one is definitely divisive, but some couples across social media have been continuing their Christmas celebrations. And we have to say, we kind of love it. It doesn’t have to be Christmas, you could celebrate any holiday, but while you can’t leave your house, why not give it a go?

    Obviously obtaining a Christmas tree this time of the year is not only extremely difficult but probably breaking lockdown rules, so you may want to just stick with homemade gifts, homemade festive decor, festive films and whatever Christmassy food you can rustle up.

    10. Games night

    Lockdown has meant non-stop Zoom couple quizzes and ‘fun’ charades evenings with distant relatives, but don’t let that put you off a game with just you and your loved one. It could make a fun lockdown date. Whether it’s snap, chess, scrabble, rummy or Guess Who, the possibilities are endless.

    Disclaimer: If you’re both competitive people, remember you will still be isolating together afterwards so if it could turn sour, maybe this isn’t the one for you.


    Send us any other home date ideas at @MarieClaireUK.

    Stay safe and happy home dating!

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