The seven best sex games: Tried and tested

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  • Sex Games: How many of these are you brave enough to try?

    Looking for a great sex game to spice things up in the bedroom? Well, we tried them all and here are 7 of the best sex games out there. You’re very welcome…

    Time Bomb

    What you need: You, your partner, a timer
    How to play: Set a time limit for as long or short as you like, e.g. 20 mintues, (the longer you can hold out the better). For this set time, kiss, touch and basically do whatever you like, but absolutely do not have penetrative sex until the time is up.
    The verdict: This one is all about delaying the action for as long as possible, putting the focus fully onto foreplay. Spend a bit of time re-connecting with each others bodies and see how it hots up the main event.

    Play Captive

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    Lots of ties

    What you need: 4 ties, ribbons, or handcuffs, and preferably a four-poster bed
    How to play: Have him tie your arms and legs to the bed, and slowly ravish you from top to bottom
    The verdict: This game allows you to surrender completely to your partner, and enjoy being the centre of attention while powerless to do anything to stop it

    Kinky Cards

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    What you need: A deck of cards and a timer
    How to play: Give each suit of cards a meaning, (e.g. hearts equal kissing, diamonds for a massage, clubs are hands-on stimulation, and spades mean oral). Take turns picking cards and carrying out the required actions. The number on the cards is equal to how long each act should last, meaning you really have to toy with each other
    The verdict: Again, foreplay is the key focus here, and you never know how long each act will last – making for a delicious cocktail of anticipation and pleasure

    The ‘Try Not To Have Sex’ Game

    (Yes, really)

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    What you need: Each other, and maybe some props (e.g. massage oil, chocolate body paint)
    How to play: You’re not allowed to have sex, but you are allowed to try and entice each other into sex. The loser is the one who gives in and initiates sex first.
    The verdict: This game is all about teasing each other and seeing how long the other can resist. A lot of fun, and the penalty for losing is hardly a punishment.

    Bad Behaviour

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    Bad behaviour

    What you need: A guilty conscience
    How to play: Tell your partner all the little things you did wrong that day, these can be as mundane or as naughty as your like. Then, get your partner to spank you using the nearest object to hand – be it a hairbrush, newspaper, or something more risque (whip, anyone?)
    The verdict: Obviously, you have to be into spanking to really enjoy this one, but adding in a bit of role-play makes it fun too. Definitely worth a try if you want something different in the bedroom.

    Take It Al Fresco

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    Al fresco fun

    What you need: A location in mind
    How to play: Tell your partner about a place you’ve always wanted to have sex but never had the guts to try, and then – just do it. It might be outside in the car, in the toilet at your favourite bar, or even on the plane. (The sky’s the limit with this one).
    The verdict: Once you settle into a long-term relationship, most of the bedroom action takes place in the, er… bedroom. This is a great way to put some excitement back into your sex life. (Extra tip – pretend you are two strangers who have just casually bumped into each other in public and end up getting carried away).

    Fantasy Fulfiller

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    Fluffy cuffs

    What you need: Paper, pencil, and hat
    How to play: Write down three to six fantasies each on small pieces of paper, then fold up each one and put them all into a hat. Take it in turns to pick them out and act on them. (It can also be a good idea to have three separate hats, with fantasies ranging from tame to wild, to let you get comfortable).
    The verdict: This is all about exploring each other’s fantasies in a fun and no-pressure way. Each person has a veto option if something comes up that they really don’t want to try. It’s a good way to learn about what each of you really want in the bedroom, and have some fun while you’re at it.

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