Looking for the best lube? 13 to buy now, according to our team of sex and intimacy experts 

It's been proven that people who use lubricant have better sex.

A product shot of Roam lube, as included in our round up of the best lube
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If you're searching for the best lube, chances are, you're keen to make penetration that bit smoother in the bedroom.

Asking yourself, what is lube? In short, it's a gel used to minimise friction during sex which pros have long maintained can make intercourse more enjoyable. According to relationship expert Annabelle Knight, not only is lube great for slick entry, it's pretty much guaranteed to make sex better overall.

Knight explains: “It's a fact that people who use lubricant have better sex - not only does the slippery stuff ease penetration, it also makes external play much more enjoyable."

Worried it might not be for you? Don't, she advises. "Contrary to popular misconception, lube is for everyone, not just people whose bodies are struggling to produce natural lubrication. Even if you feel that your body is doing a great job without any assistance, you might be missing out on a whole lot of extra pleasure without knowing it."

You'll find that most condoms are lubricated, assisting smoother sex. But if you're not using condoms, lube might be the way to go. There's a whole range on offer, from water-based lubes to CBD-infused lubes. Scroll our edit of the best below, and don't miss our guides to the best lubes for anal, best lubes for sensitive skin, and how to use lube, while you're here.

How did MC UK test the best lube?

So, which brands of lube are worth your money and which, well, aren’t? 

I'm Ally Head, the Health and Relationships Editor here at Marie Claire UK, and I'm lucky to get to speak to some of the best experts in the business every day. 

We're big on sexual wellness here at MC, and so have enlisted an independent board of sex experts, intimacy coaches, and relationship therapists to share the brands they actually use at home (yes, all of the below products have been tested first-hand). This includes:

What was considered when testing for the best lube

Not all lubes are created equal, and the following was considered:

  • Is it water, silicone, or oil-based?
  • Is it skin safe and genital friendly - aka, is it suitable for all skin and genital types?
  • Is it scented or non-scented, and is it sticky or smooth?
  • Does it tingle or anaesthetise?
  • Is it made from natural or synthetic ingredients?

Marin's advice? "Test new lubes on your forearm - you’re looking for slick and silky, not sticky or greasy, and you should be able to glide your fingers across your skin without noticing any tugging," she shares. "A quality lube won’t dry up right away, and will leave your skin feeling moisturised, too - a few drops should go a long way."

It might also be important to you to consider if the items are delivered in discreet packaging - which FYI, all of the below are. Curious about CBD lube and whether to use coconut oil as lube, too? Read our guides.

One of the lubes tested in this round up, photographed by sex expert Ness Cooper

A product shot of the Smile Makers lube, taken by sex expert Ness Cooper when testing

(Image credit: Ness Cooper)

Best lube: 13 to buy now 

Best silicone lube:

Best lub: Pjur

(Image credit: Pjur)

pJur Analyse Me! lube

Reasons to buy

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Silicone-based
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Skin-safe
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Scented - jojoba 
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Anaesthetises
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Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a non-scented and tingle-free option.

Best for: A silicone-based lube that promises extra-long lasting power.

What the experts thought when testing: Ruby Payne, sex and relationships expert at UberKinky, says: "The Pjur Analyse me! lube is my favourite because it's made from natural ingredients and helped me relax muscles without compromising on sensation and anaesthetic effects. When I want to enhance my play - especially anal play - this is my go-to lube as it makes it as comfortable and pleasurable as possible in a natural way. Plus, I enjoy that it offers slicker and less stick as the silicone formulation makes it a non-sticky and smooth substance."

Vanessa Marin, sex therapist and author, agrees, adding: "My number one favourite is definitely Pjur - we are huge fans of using it in the bedroom as it's made without perfume, is dermatologically tested, and is great for anal sex."

Best natural lube:

Best lube: Into The Wylde

(Image credit: Wylde)

Into the Wylde Intimate lubricant

Reasons to buy

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Water-based
+
Skin-safe
+
Non-scented
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No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option.

Best for: An 100% plant-based, nasties-free lube.

What the experts thought when testing: Georgia Di Mattos, co-founder of iPlaySafe App, says: "Into the Wylde is one of my favourite lubricants. It's vulva-friendly, certified vegan and has an intimately balanced pH, which is important." 

Best water based lube:

Sliquid Organics Natural Gel lube

Reasons to buy

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Water-based
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Skin-safe
+
Non-scented
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No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Again, some may prefer a scented and tingling option
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A higher price point.

Best for: A water-based lube blended using certified organic botanic extracts.

What the experts thought when testing: Barbara Santini, psychologist, sex therapist and relationship adviser at Dime Piecela, says: "I like the Sliquid Organics Water-based lube as it's water-based lubes and has organic ingredients. I found that it works effectively on all skin types and toy surfaces, and can be used on the vagina or anus, too. Plus, the lube is fragrance-free, contains hydrating properties, and is ideal for all skin types. It has a well-balanced pH, is less sticky, and doesn't dirty the sheets, either. My favourite lube."

Best non scented lube:

Best lube: Smile Makers Generous Gel

(Image credit: Smile Makers)

Smile Makers Generous Gel

Reasons to buy

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Water-based 
+
Skin-safe
+
Non-scented
+
No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option.

Best for: A water-based lubricant that's made with uber skin-safe ingredients.

What the experts thought when testing: Georgia Di Mattos, co-founder of iPlaySafe App, says: "I prefer using a water-based lube and one of my favourites is Smile Makers’ Generous Gel. It feels lightweight and silky and comes in a beautiful - and incredibly chic - bottle."

Cecile Gasnault, brand director of Smile Makers, says: "I love that the Generous Gel is a water-based lubricant (softer for skin), and that it's formulated with pharma-grade ingredients so safe for all vulva-owners, including during pregnancy. I find it absolutely essential for great sex." 

Best tingling lube:

Best lube: Coco de Mer

(Image credit: Coco de Mer)

Coco De Mer Divine Glow Aqua lube

Reasons to buy

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Water-based
+
Skin-safe
+
Scented
+
Tingles 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a non-scented and tingle-free option
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A higher price point.

Best for: An indulgent, water-based lubricant in a glass bottle.

What the experts thought when testing: Julia Kotziamani, a love, sex, and relationship coach, says: "In terms of all-time favourites, I love the Coco De Mer divine glow aqua lubricant. It's a water-based lube that I find great for use with toys." 

Best long-lasting lube:

A product shot of a DeoDec lube

(Image credit: DeoDoc)

DeoDoc Intimate lube drops

Reasons to buy

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Oil-based 
+
Skin-safe 
+
Non-scented
+
No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option
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A higher price point.

Best for: A lube to counter vaginal dryness and maximise glide which only requires a few drops.

What the experts thought when testing: Julia Kotziamani, a love, sex, and relationship coach, says: "I love the above Coco De Mer option, but use Deo Doc Intimate Drops for a more durable (but not toy or latex condom-friendly) oil-based option."

Best cheap lube:

Best lube: Coconut oil

(Image credit: Amazon)

Coconut oil

Reasons to buy

+
Oil-based
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Skin-safe
+
Scented - coconut
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No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a product specifically designed for sex.

Best for: Coconut oil for use in the kitchen or the bedroom.

What the experts said thought when testing: Julia Kotziamani, a love, sex, and relationship coach, says: "In an emergency, you can't go wrong with good old coconut oil."

Best natural lube:

Best lube: Roam

(Image credit: Roam)

Roam 'For The Front' gel lubricant

Reasons to buy

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Water-based
+
Skin-safe
+
No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
A higher price point.

Best for: "Natural wetness in a bottle," according to the brand, made from skin-loving ingredients.

What the experts thought when testing: Alex Griffiths, co-founder of Roam, says: "I love this lube as it's 100% natural, vegan and water-based. It feels light, refreshing and hydrating and works well with both condoms and toys."

Best vegan lube:

Best lube: Lovehoney enjoy

(Image credit: Love Honey)

Lovehoney Enjoy lube

Reasons to buy

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Water-based 
+
Skin-safe 
+
Non-scented 
+
No tingle 
+
Synthetic ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option
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Uses non-natural ingredients.

Best for: Water-based, vegan-friendly lubricant for long-lasting enjoyment.

What the experts thought when testing: Rachel Worthington, sex and relationship expert and sex toy tester at Bedbible, says: "Lovehoney’s Enjoy lube is one of my go-to recommendations. It’s good-quality, water-based lube that is suitable for all sex toys and condoms, and is very affordable."

Best non-scented lube:

Best lube: Lovehoney Indulge

(Image credit: Lovehoney)

Lovehoney Indulge lube

Reasons to buy

+
Silicone-based
+
Skin-safe 
+
Non-scented 
+
No tingle 
+
Synthetic ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option
-
Uses non-natural ingredients.

Best for: A silicone-based lube that promises to be both slick and odourless.

What the experts thought when testing: Rachel Worthington, sex and relationship expert and sex toy tester at Bedbible, says: "I found that Lovehoney’s Indulge lube - a silicone lube - is great when used correctly. It lasts longer than water-based lubes, but shouldn’t be used with silicone sex toys, as it can damage the surface and make it unsafe to use."

Best organic lube:

Best lube: YES Organic lube

(Image credit: Yes)

YES Organic water-based lube

Reasons to buy

+
Water-based
+
Skin-safe
+
Non-scented
+
No tingle
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option.

Best for: A lube designed for those with sensitive skin.

What the experts thought when testing: Rachel Worthington, sex and relationship expert and sex toy tester at Bedbible, says: "My personal favourite lube is the YES Organic Water-based lube, with an aloe vera base. It’s great for those with sensitive skin or those who are prone to yeast or bacterial infections. It might dry out a little quicker, but is easier reactivated with a bit of water (or saliva)."

Best lube for avoiding UTI:

Best lube: Oomf

(Image credit: Oomf)

Oomf lube

Reasons to buy

+
Water-based
+
Skin-safe 
+
Non-scented
+
No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option
-
A higher price point. 

Best for: A pH-balanced, gynaecologist-approved lube that's free from parabens and glycerin.

What the experts thought when testing: Cecile Gasnault, brand director of Smile Makers, says: "I like this lube. I appreciate the brand's attention to the safety of ingredients and their light-hearted approach to sexual wellness that reminds us of ours."

Best lube on Amazon:

Best lube: UberLube

(Image credit: UberLube)

Uberlube luxury lube

Reasons to buy

+
Water-based
+
Skin-safe 
+
Non-scented
+
No tingle 
+
Natural ingredients.

Reasons to avoid

-
Some may prefer a scented and tingling option
-
A higher price point. 

Best for: A friction-reducing lube that's both unscented and water-friendly, so safe for use in the bath, shower and so on.

What the experts thought when testing: Vanessa Marin, sex therapist and author, recommends.

Frequently asked questions about the best lube

What are the three types of lube?

Not sure how to shop for or choose a lube? Marin explains that there are three different types to choose from:

1. Silicone-based lubes

Silicone-based products last longer and tend to feel silkier on the skin, shares Marin. "They can sometimes stain sheets, so you do have to exercise a bit of caution before getting too lube-y, and do avoid using silicone-based lubes with silicone toys, as it can cause your toy to break down over time."

Best for: Sex, masturbation, and anal sex. 

2. Water-based lubes

On the other hand, water-based lubes don’t stain but aren't particularly long-lasting, either, she goes on. "They often require reapplication but are great for use with everything - that is, sex, masturbation, silicone toys and more."

 Best for: Use with silicone toys.

3. Oil-based lubes

Finally, oil-based lubes can be good for those with allergies, shares the sex therapist. "That said, they can be extremely messy, can stain and can be difficult to remove. Do note, too: they should never be used with latex condoms."

Best for: A more natural option.

Is lube a good investment?

Wondering what ways, exactly, lube will be a good investment for your sex life? According to Knight, "there's no end to the ways that lube improves your sex life." We're listening...

1. It reduces friction

An obvious one, but by applying gel and lubrication to your genitals, you'll reduce the potential friction of your bodies rubbing together, she explains. "This means less chafing and more pleasuring. No matter what sex position you're doing (bondage for beginners? Kamasutra? There's no judgment here) or what sex toy you're playing with, reduced friction is a blessing your orgasms will thank you for," she adds.

2. It makes experimenting safer

Think about it: it's far more bodily friendly than, say, chocolate or whipped cream. "It's a safe way to amp things up in the bedroom, whether that's adding a hint of sweetness to oral sex or bringing a little extra tingle to your touches," shares Knight.

Essentially, it can join you in places where other edibles can't (we're looking at you, whipped cream). 

3. It's usable at a seconds notice

This one is for the people who just really can't get on with condoms. You know, the faff of unwrapping them, putting them on, making sure they're on correctly... can all be a bit of a turn-off, can't it? "Lube is ready as soon as you are, so you can heat things up at a moment's notice," Knight shares. Just make sure you're using other protection if you're skipping the condom altogether.

Ally Head
Senior Health, Sustainability and Relationships Editor

Ally Head is Marie Claire UK's Senior Health, Sustainability, and Relationships Editor, nine-time marathoner, and Boston Qualifying runner. Day-to-day, she works across site strategy, features, and e-commerce, reporting on the latest health updates, writing the must-read health and wellness content, and rounding up the genuinely sustainable and squat-proof gym leggings worth *adding to basket*. She's won a BSME for her sustainability work, regularly hosts panels and presents for events like the Sustainability Awards, and saw nine million total impressions on the January 2023 Wellness Issue she oversaw. Follow Ally on Instagram for more or get in touch.