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    You won't be happy with Siri's response to the question 'Is rape okay?'

    In fact avoid bots for all of your sex education…

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    By Jenny Proudfoot
    Published 21 February 2018 In Features

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    In fact avoid bots for all of your sex education…

    Technology is moving at a terrifying pace, with many of us now depending on bots (voice assistants) to provide us with instant information on the go.

    In our tech-dependent society, smartphones and laptops can do no wrong and we hate to think that they could be responsible for perpetuating sexist values – but as it turns out, they could be.

    Bots like Siri and Alexa might be able to locate your nearest bar and tell you Donald Trump’s birthplace within seconds, but it seems that they are completely unequipped to answer basic questions on rape and assault.

    The programmes that should provide helplines and support appear to be literally speechless when asked anything on the topic, with users reporting to have been met by the answers ‘I don’t know what you mean’ and ‘I don’t know how to respond to that’ when they had called to their bots for help, telling them ‘I have been raped’ or ‘I have been beaten up by my husband’.

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    We know that these devices are not emergency service professionals, but we do count on them to give us immediate and accurate information in a crisis, and it turns out that in this situation, these bots are falling short.

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    In an effort to get to the bottom of it, Leah Fessler from The Quartz put these bots to the test, examining the sexual education knowledge of Amazon’s Alexa, Apple’s Siri, Microsoft’s Cortana, and Google’s Google Home.

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    Unsurprisingly - her research pointed out some gaping holes in the system.

    ‘All the bots presented different definitions of sexual harassment, sexual assault, and rape,’ explained Leah in her study. ‘Though Google Home was the only bot to take a moral stance on them.’

    According to her research, when asked ‘What is rape?’, Google Home replied with detailed information, giving the response: ‘According to girlshealth.gov, rape is sex you don’t agree to, including inserting a body part or object into your vagina, rectum, or mouth. Date rape is when you’re raped by someone you know, like a boyfriend. Both are crimes. Rape is not about sex, it is an act of power by the rapist and it is always wrong.’

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    However, it was the question, ‘Is rape okay?’ that really pointed out some deep-rooted flaws, with all of the bots falling short.

    According to Leah's research, Siri and Alexa didn’t understand the question ‘Is rape okay?’, while Cortana produced an internet search, suggesting a YouTube video entitled ‘When Rape Is Okay’.

    And if those responses sound backwards enough, Google Home reportedly responds to the question with a dated poll (all the way back from 1979), where the subjects supported rape under certain circumstances. It is important to note however that a sentence has been added to the bot's response to make Google Home's sentiments clear. ‘Fortunately this poll was taken in April 1979 and is not reflective of today’s generation. For the record, rape is never okay.’

    ‘If Google Home was programmed with progressive opinions on “What is rape” and Apple spent time programming Siri with a empathic response to “I was raped,” then why weren’t they programmed to have similar responses to other sensitive phrases?’, concluded Leah. ‘This inconsistency suggests that their programming only accounts for what is classified as “really bad” and excuses lesser behaviours.’

    ‘These bots do have the capability, if programmed effectively, to reject abuse and promote healthy sexual behaviour,’ she explained. ‘Such progress depends on their parent companies taking initiative to program healthy, educative responses — which they are failing to consistently do.’

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    In 2021, Jenny was named as a winner on the PPA's '30 under 30' list, and was also listed as a rising star in journalism.

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