I tried using a menstrual cup and this is what (honestly) happened

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  • 'The thought of using one used to make my cervix shudder... But am I glad I tried it? Absolutely.'

    OK. Let me give you some background as to why I even thought about using a menstrual cup. I’ve been vegetarian for 11 years and although I’ve always been a decent recycler, after reading about the fatal Ethiopian landfill landslide (followed by the Sri Lankan rubbish dump landslide), something inside me clicked and I’m trying to be more environmentally conscious.

    But, I’m also a 28-year-old woman who likes to live an easy, convenient life.

    And no, the two don’t always go hand-in-hand.

    I try to make changes where I can and it was only a matter of time until I came across the menstrual cup. It’s good for the environment, my wallet, it makes bacterial infections like thrush less likely because there’s nothing in them that should disrupt your pH levels and its convenience is pretty empowering.

    According to research from Intimina, women who use menstrual cups are also have better sex. Apparently 84% of the 1,500 who trialled a menstrual cup felt more confident during their period, whilst 78% felt more comfortable in their body. And thanks to this, 28% reported an improvement in their sex life as the cup decreased dryness. So, I was sold on giving it a go.

    When you think that almost all mainstream tampons and sanitary pads contain bleached rayon which can create the byproduct dioxin (which is carcinogenic, no less,) it might be time to think about your other options which also include organic cotton and unbleached feminine products.

    However, the words ‘menstrual cup’ have always made my cervix shudder. I’m not even a massive fans of tampons TBH so this was going to be a stretch. (Excuse the pun.)

    What is a menstrual cup?

    But everyone seems to be raving about menstrual cups at the moment, even though they were first invented by midwifes in 1932. Intimina have their own line of menstrual cups, and Swedish fashion retailer Monki have just collaborated with Lunette to make ‘The Cup’. Then you’ve got Mooncup which is probably the most well-known brand, and those more organically minded might also want to know about OrganiCup.

    I decided to try the OrganiCup. They should all be BPA free and made of medical grade silicone but this one was also free of latex, dyes, toxins or bleaches which, as an organic beauty lover, ticked all my boxes. They’re reusable for years and you can wear them for up to 12 hours.

    menstrual cup12 hours means I can insert it in the comfort of my own home and take it out in the comfort of my own home, too. It also means no more of those awkward office trips to the toilet smuggling sanitary products up my sleeve.

    I got size A which is recommended for women who have not given birth before and it can hold up to 25 ml of blood which is the equivalent of three super tampons. (You’re going to be reading more about blood soon so the squeamish of you might want to close this tab now.)

    So I decided to give it a go. Was it easy, no? Was it rewarding? Ultimately, yes. Will I be using it every period? Maybe not to start with…

    I struggled to put it in. In fact, to such a degree, that I asked my boss if I could work from home that day because I knew it was going to be a process.

    I first tried using the ‘c fold’ method where you essentially fold the cup in half and then put it inside you. Not only did I need to use an organic water-based lubricant to get this in, I could tell that the cup wasn’t opening inside me (AKA suctioning) but I didn’t realise this until after I smugly put on white underwear and saw the leakage.

    Disheartened, I went to take it out and this resulted in a slight panic because I couldn’t get it out initially. Unlike a tampon, it requires a little more grip on the stem to pull it out and by the point, it was pretty deep inside me. But, I remembered the instructions said I needed to use my stomach muscles to push it downwards so I did.

    Without realising I had said muscles, it was an enlightening discovery for me. I ‘pushed’ down until I had a good grip on the stem and then pulled it out a little bit too enthusiastically – and yes, it was like a mini murder scene. Rather than carefully removing it and pouring the contents down the toilet, I pulled it out like I was plucking out a hair. My excitement over my newfound muscles was a little misplaced and premature, obviously.

    So, I Googled and watched YouTube videos on different folds (they often demonstrate these inside a champagne flute which I thought made the whole experience that much chicer) and decided to take two with the ‘punch-down fold’ or the ‘seven-fold’ as these are meant to help the cup open inside you easier.

    Take two of taking it out was a lot better. I pushed slightly until the stem poked out and then I pulled it out while sitting on the loo and it was significantly tidier. Although, when I washed it in the sink, I stupidly poured my tap straight into the cup so things got a little messy there – but, progress.

    Now onto my third attempt of trying to insert it. I used the ‘punch-down fold’ and I needed to get a little bit more up in there to get it to open up but I definitely heard a slight suction noise when I moved it around and once it was in – it was actually pretty comfortable because you can’t feel it at all.

    I definitely will need some practice before I’m 100% convinced by this method full-time but am I glad I tried it? Absolutely.

    But, don’t just take it from me, I also talked to another journalist, Lisa Bowman, a veteran user of these, who assures me to keep going…

    ‘I’ve been using a Mooncup for a year now, after working at a surf camp in India and being one of the few who’d never used one,’ Lisa tells us. ‘I’d always seen Mooncup ads on the back of service station toilet doors and mocked them, but suddenly it made so much sense – tampons are really hard to get hold of in countries like India, so instead of bringing a huge supply of tampons in your rucksack, you just bring a small Mooncup. Plus, it holds more blood than a tampon so you can stay in the water longer.

    When I looked into it more, I realised how bad for the environment tampons are (they just end up in landfill/the sea, doubly so if there’s an applicator involved) and how bad for your vagina they are (they basically suck all the moisture out of you), especially if they’re not organic. Plus, you can get a menstrual cup for less than £20 and they last ages, so you save so much money. I got a cup as soon as I got back to the UK – it was a no brainer.

    It took a few cycles to get used to it – I was always paranoid that it was leaking (it rarely was) so I’d recommend using liners or towels until you get used to it, for peace of mind. It also took a while getting the hang of removing it when it was full – at first there was a lot of blood on the bathroom floor, but now I’m a pro. It can also be awkward trying to rinse it in public bathrooms but I never need to change it at work anyway (you can keep it in longer than a tampon). If you do need to, just take a bottle of water into the cubicle with you. You do have to really get your fingers up there to put it in/get it out but if you’re used to using non-applicator tampons, you should be fine. And shouldn’t we all be more comfortable with our bodies anyway?’

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