'It's important that women are furious right now'
Words – Arielle Tschinkel
From the editors of HelloGiggles
As we continue to learn new and disturbing details surrounding film executive Harvey Weinstein’s alleged sexual misconduct, more and more celebrities are speaking out against the behaviour.
The latest to do so is Blake Lively, who has addressed the allegations against Weinstein by saying: ‘It’s devastating to hear.’
Lively has known Weinstein professionally for some time, working with him on a film business panel in 2013 with other influential people, including former First Lady Michelle Obama, who says she is ‘disgusted’ by her ex-friend.
In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter, Lively said: ‘That was never my experience with Harvey in any way whatsoever, and I think that if people heard these stories … I do believe in humanity enough to think that this wouldn’t have just continued.’
She added: ‘I never heard any stories like this — I never heard anything specific — but it’s devastating to hear.’
Lively was quick to point out that the most important thing to do now is to listen to the victims.
‘The number one thing that can happen is that people who share their stories, people have to listen to them and trust them, and people have to take it seriously,’ she said. ‘As important as it is to remain furious about this, it’s important to also say that this exists everywhere so remember to look everywhere.
‘This isn’t a single incident. This cannot happen, this should not happen, and it happens in every single industry,’ she said.
On Tuesday, Harvey Weinstein’s wife Georgia Chapman said she is leaving him. A spokesperson for Weinstein has said: ‘Any allegations of non-consensual sex are unequivocally denied by Mr Weinstein.’
Lively added that women are sexually harassed so often that they are essentially conditioned to ignore it. “It happens to women all over the place, all the time, to the point where women don’t even think that this is a real assault,” she said.
‘I’ve had plenty of things happen to me whether it be trying on a dress for prom at some clothing store, to a director being inappropriate, to a guy walking down the street where you don’t think, “Oh well, that wasn’t actually sexual assault — this guy just, like, grabbed my butt.”
‘It’s important that women are furious right now,’ she continued. ‘It’s important that there is an uprising. It’s important that we don’t stand for this and that we don’t focus on one or two or three or four stories, it’s important that we focus on humanity in general and say, ‘This is unacceptable.’”
Women everywhere deal with sexual harassment; from catcalling, to unwanted touching, to online encounters, and everything in between, and it’s by no means limited to the entertainment industry.
Our hearts are with victims everywhere. We are listening, and you are not alone.