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    A 15-Year-Old Schoolboy Wrote A Letter About Emma Watson's UN Speech. Read It Here.

    Ed Holtom wrote an open letter to Emma Watson and sent in to the Sunday Telegraph. Read the full letter here...

    By Marie Claire
    Published 30 September 2014 In Opinion

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    Ed Holtom wrote an open letter to Emma Watson and sent in to the Sunday Telegraph. Read the full letter here...

    Own up. Who was ever-so-slightly sceptical that men would really get Emma' Watson's speech on gender inequality? Addressing an audience of celebrities and fellow delegates, Emma spoke passionately about the need for men to sit up and take notice of gender inequality. Aiming to encourage one billion men to become advocates of change in ending inequalities that women and girls face globally, we weren't sure how many of the men we knew would be signing up to HeForShe any time soon.

    But proving that the right were people being affected, one 15-year-old schoolboy from Hertfordshire felt moved enough by Emma Watson's powerful speech to write a letter to a national newspaper. Ed Holtom sent out a worthy message to other boys with his thought-provoking and mature views on feminism, capturing the spirit of Emma's speech and reaffirming our belief in the youth of today.

    The Sunday Telegraph edited the letter, but Buzzfeed.com contacted Ed to get the original. Here it is in full:

    'I recently had a religious studies lesson where we talked about gender and the role it plays in modern society, having watched Emma Watson's speech about gender equality the night before and agreed with everything she said, I was disappointed by how ignorant some of the other boys in my class were (I attend an independent, all boys school in Hertfordshire). I felt compelled to write down my views of gender equality, although I'm not sure how well they would be received by people at my school, I wanted to share it somehow, so here it is.

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    If We Really Want Equality.

    We're lucky to live in a western world where women can speak out against stereotypes. It's a privilege. Gender equality and feminism is not about 'man-hating' or the idea of 'female supremacy'. It is, by definition, the opposite. The definition of feminism is, 'a person who believes in the social, political and economic equality of the sexes.'

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    It's pretty simple really, and if you believe in those things, then you're a feminist. Feminism can also be interpreted as a woman owning her sexuality, in the same way men do, wearing clothes that make her feel good about herself, or that show off her body, not for the attention of men, without being called a slut and with freedom from the threat of rape, because she wants to.

    Recently we've been hearing about what it means to be 'masculine' and what it means to be 'feminine'. It means nothing, barring biological differences. By perceiving these two words as anything other than the description of a human's genitalia, we perpetuate a stereotype which is nothing but harmful to all of us. By using words such as 'girly' or 'manly' we inadvertently buy into gender stereotyping whether we like it or not.

    We live the gender stereotype without realising it, we have been born with it, we played with toys designed for our genders, we go to schools which are segregated, we play sports which other genders do not, and it takes some mindfulness for many people to even acknowledge its existence and the injustice it entails for both genders. If we want equality, it will take more effort than paying women the same as men, or giving women equal opportunities to men.

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    If we really want equality we must all make an active decision to abandon phrases such as 'what it means to be masculine' and the like. If we really want equality we must try our best to ignore gender and stop competing with one another. We must stop comparing ourselves to each other, particularly other people of the same gender, because that leaves us with a feeling of insecurity and self doubt.

    We must stop pressuring each other to fit with this stereotype which more often than not leaves us feeling repressed and unable to express ourselves. And most of all, if we really want equality, we need to stop caring. Stop caring about gender, stop caring about another person's sexual preference, stop caring about how far someone fits in with the stereotype and stop caring, most of all, about how much we fit this stereotype, we must not let gender define us.

    Kind regards,

    Ed"

    If that didn't move you as much as Emma's speech, nothing will.

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