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    This is how much alcohol men and women think you should be drinking on a first date

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    By Delphine Chui
    Published 15 June 2017 In Features

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    Do you agree?

    Drinking alcohol on a first date is a given for some - because, let's admit it, the dating game can be pretty damn awkward.

    That's why most of us turn to first date tips and even go to a date readily armed with talking points in case there's a sudden lull in conversation.

    And, yes, having a glass of wine (or two) can take the edge off those initial butterflies.

    But, just how many glasses should you have?

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    Dating site The Inner Circle polled some of their users about dating habits and found out that women think 2-3 drinks is the best on a date compared to men who tend to go for 4-6.

    And, interestingly champagne came up as the best drink to display in your dating profile photo but 1 in 10 men think you shouldn't order it on a date (compared to 1 in 25 women.) Both genders agreed that you shouldn't order shots on a first date while cocktails came out universally acceptable.

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    While 14% of women said they didn't think alcohol should feature in a profile picture, compared with just 4 per cent of men.

    Oh, and when they were asked about their biggest date turn-offs, men said being rude to waiting staff was the worst thing you could do on a date while women said it's being on your phone.

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