‘How to be an anti-racist ally for the long term,’ by Sophie Williams

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  • After George Floyd's murder non-black people took action against racism in a way never seen before. Sophie Williams (@officialmillennialblack) explains why it's crucial to keep up the long term allyship when the news cycle moves on

    As the pandemic forces us all to spend more time at home and online than we’d ever anticipated, more white people are tuning in to conversations about race. From finding the words to talk about racism, to looking for ways to take action and build anti-racism and allyship into their daily lives. Wanting to learn how to be a better anti-racist ally.

    Many people who haven’t engaged with this conversation before are suddenly finding their voices. As I’ve watched this happen, there are some things I’m sure about, and others are yet to be decided.

    Am I glad anti-racism is finding space to exist in the homes of those who might have felt it ‘wasn’t for them’ before? Yes!

    Do I like the fact it took a pandemic, and a series of filmed lynchings spread over social media to drive that change? No.

    Am I certain this new-found interest is sticking around, leading to long-term change in our lifetimes? I’ll be honest, the jury is still out on that one.

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    Sophie Williams (@officialmillennialblack): her Anti-Racist Ally is a must-read introduction to action and activism

    As the news cycle moves on, and well intentioned (but ineffectual) black squares are relegated to the archives, one question’s been asked of me more than any other.

    So, is this anti-racism movement going to be for the long term, or is it just a flash in the pan?’ 

    It’s a reasonable question, but one I’ve never felt I have a good answer for. Because the truth is, while I hope so, I just don’t know for sure.

    What I do know though, is there’s no quick fix. If we want the momentum to continue, and I desperately do, then you and I are going to have to be conscious, consistent and intentional in making that happen. How to be a better anti-racist ally? Let me show you seven key ways…

    1. Being ‘not racist’ and ‘anti-racist’ are very different 

    Not being racist is not the same as being anti-racist. Let me explain. Not being racist is a passive state, it doesn’t require action. Being anti-racist, on the other hand, is an active state. Being anti-racist means speaking out against injustices every single time we see, or hear, them, even when it doesn’t feel easy. 

    Keep up the momentum of this movement, and making the change we need to see, will need more people to stepping up from simply not being racist, into being actively anti-racist.

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    Over the weekend two sets of Anti-Racism posters were put up in London. One set in Hackney Wick, and another in Stamford Hill. I’ve spoken a lot about breaking our echo chambers, and I wanted to do something offline so that the only people seeing the messages weren’t people who had opted in, but just people going about their days. I reached out to @jack__arts on Friday evening, by Monday we had a plan and with the help of superstar designer @rhosyn we also had print ready files. Yesterday I went to see them and was so overwhelmed that I burst into tears in the street! Like everything else in the three weeks (I can’t believe that’s all it’s been) since I shared my first anti-racism post it’s been an absolute whirlwind, but it’s so amazing! In collaboration with the BUILDHOLLYWOOD family of @jack_agency , @jack__arts and @diabolicalest93 for their #YourSpaceOrMine project.

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    2. Keep on engaging

    Following a whole load of new Instagram accounts, as a way to diversify your feed, or to access free, helpful tools and resources is great. But now you have to keep on engaging.  

    The people behind the accounts are still doing the work. They’re still researching, making and sharing valuable content. Then as interest drops and people stay following without interacting, the message algorithms receive is this is no longer engaging to people. So the message becomes buried, making it harder and harder for people to find. 

    Turn on post notifications and stay engaged with people who are sharing resources helping you on your anti-racism journey.

    3. Stay feeling uncomfortable

    The anti-racism conversation touches on all things we’re told not to talk about. Sex, money, politics – everything we’re told is taboo and private is touched by race. We need to teach ourselves to get comfortable talking about it all. We need to accept the discomfort of difficult conversations.

    It’s vital to remember that however uncomfortable we may feel, it will never be as uncomfortable as a knee pressing down on our necks.

    4. Think offline

    Posting and sharing information can be useful, and has the potential to reach a wide range of people. But, the majority of anti-racism work needs to happen offline, in our daily lives. We need to find ways to speak out and drive change at work, in our communities and even in our own homes. Remember anti-racist allyship is what you do, not what you believe, so get active in speak up, and speaking out for what you believe. 

    5. Carry on planning

    All too often anti-racism work is reactive – it takes something awful – to galvanize people into action.  Look for ways to be proactive, not just reactive. Make future plans, form habits and look for regular ways to integrate anti-racism into your everyday life, in order to make sure your allyship will continue into the  future, not just the present.

    6. Connect with others 

    Keeping up the momentum in anything is easiest when you have a community around you. Find accountability buddies, people who are on the same path of learning as you, and book in regular sessions. Share resources, ideas and plans to keep each other motivated and on track with anti-racism work.

    7. Anti-racism isn’t a self-improvement exercise

    Anti-racist allyship is not about making yourself feel better, or about you becoming a ‘better person’. Anti-racist allyship is about improving the lived experiences of people from marginalised racial groups. The way things are structured at the moment was never meant to work for everyone, equally. Don’t feel satisfied you’ve learned all there is to learn, or done all you can. We’re building on a legacy of civil rights activists, and there’s always more we can all push towards, every day.

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    * Anti-Racist Ally: An Introduction to Action and Activism by Sophie Williams (HQ, £6.99 paperback) is published on 15 October, 2020

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