Cheryl Cole ‘devastated’ about Ashley’s behaviour

she could have whoever she wants, she shooting of into the stratosphere of superstardom, let him go he's a total loser, glamour models and there ilk can have him!
Comment by kelly hawkes on February 16 12:42

Know how she feels - its really hard when you love someone, eventually he will kill the love she has for him and then she will move on if she cant do it just now.
Comment by Maureen on February 16 12:42

Matt, how could she possibly stay with him?? He is a complete sleaze bag, and obviously does not appreciate or have any respect for his wife. She is in the public eye, and he is embarrassing her and bringing he down. She really needs to get rid, his is way below her. She could have a real genuine good guy if she wanted.
Comment by fi on February 16 12:43

it may sounds like a cliche but the most important relationiship she has, is with herself & she needs to love herself first before she can love anyone....

unfotunately this is no surprise really that he had another affair..

Comment by cece on February 16 12:45

Cheryl, you're gorgeous....get rid of the loser and hold your head up girl....
Comment by Pam on February 16 12:46

Get rid of him, how can he treat her like this & why does she put up with it?????Its not love because if you love some you would not do this to them get out.
Comment by J on February 16 12:47

show him the door cheryl,you deserve better than him
Comment by wendy on February 16 12:49

Once a cheat always a cheat..
Comment by Jill on February 16 12:50

How many times does he have to humiliate his gorgeous,talented wife before she leaves him? He's a whinging,spoilt little boy who,it seems,can't cope with his wife's superstardom and the fact that she outshines him in every aspect of their life. She needs to wise up and he needs to grow up! Come on Cheryl, you deserve better and you are worth more than this lowlife is giving you.
Comment by Liz on February 16 12:51

This is clearly a codependent relationship which is never healthy. For some reason Cheryl feels able to overlook herself and forgive her husband when he treats her with such disrespect. Eventually she will inevitably come to the conclusion that the relationship cannot go anywhere constructive but until she is emotionally able to admit this nothing anybody else says or does can direct her. I wish she would look closer into her own self and seek counselling help towards a more balanced view.
Comment by cargirl on February 16 12:52

LEAVE HIM NOW!!! AND HIT HIM WHERE IT HURTS MOST.......IN HIS BANK BALANCE!!!
Comment by Hayley Trindade on February 16 12:53

If she doesn't leave him now, she will be like John Terry's wife Toni in few years.......
Comment by Kate on February 16 12:54

Before Cheryl married this idiot she claimed that if any man cheated on her the relationship would be over. Since the first lot of cheating shes changed her tune to you must fight for love if its worth having. Make up your mind.....if your happy with this kind of treatment then stay and stop harping on about it !

Signed - Sick of these footballers getting away with murder !
Comment by Kyles on February 16 12:58

i dont care much for football marriages and the magazine spreads however dont you think ashley has had his chance...many chances infact...hes married to a smart and respectful woman who despite fame and celebrity status etc wants to be married for the right reasons and would appear to give it all up to be happy with him...these football players should honour their vows and their wives
Comment by steph on February 16 13:00

Show him the door. You can hold your head up high 'cos you did try to make the marriage work. It was he who blew it. Find yourself someone who will really appreciate and love you.
Comment by Tammi on February 16 13:04

Cheryl could have the pick of the bunch, for her own self esteem she should kick this cheat to the kerb and start a new chapter of her life without him. He will just drag her down.She is talented, beautiful and loyal, he does not sdeserve her.
Comment by maggiemae on February 16 13:06

Thankfully, there are no children to consider, so move on Cheryl. Why are you wasting your life with such a loser?
Comment by pea on February 16 13:06

I really hope she files for divorce immediately.

I honestly girls are far better off single nowadays
Comment by Joanna on February 16 13:06

Get rid of him asap - she can do so much better. Look at Toni Terry now she has supposedly forgive John - she looks like a complete walkover!
Comment by Lyns on February 16 13:08

And this is a man that young lads are looking up to?? Great - lets bring more lying, cheating scumbags into the world!!! Get rid - and stop people buying into it. It wont be so exciting for him when no-one gives a damn!!
Comment by Laura Smith RVN on February 16 13:13

Ditch him!! he is vile, she can do so so so much better than that, she's beautiful and could get any man she wanted, never settle for a cheat!
Comment by Caroline on February 16 13:16

Matt Avis - YOU'RE AS BAD AS HIM!! Cheryl, Dump Ashley, he's an idiot!
Comment by Anon on February 16 13:16

when trust goes out the window, then love goes out the door, she'l end up hurt again and again. Shes beautiful wont be long before she gets snapped up by a decent guy that can keep his trousers up!!
Comment by lz on February 16 13:28

Leopards dont change their spots and Cheryl deserves better.
Comment by Amanda Knapton on February 16 13:48

As the saying goes.. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Enough 2nd chances.
Comment by RBs on February 16 13:50

you deserve way better cheryl xxx
Comment by claire on February 16 13:54

stay with him
if these things are true why wait until now to say if it happened in 2008
Comment by kazza70 on February 16 14:03

She wont leave him. Nice publicity for the Brits by the way .
Comment by Gina on February 16 14:17

She should leave him in my honest opinion if it's happened once and then now its come out again i'm sorry i would leave.

She deserves some one so much better, she's an amazing and down to earth person, why would you want to cheat on someone like that eh?

To cheat on someone like Cheryl Cole it is beyond me......all the lads i know would never, but she must really love him if she stays with him & i think it's great she's not being hasty over it all and is thinking things through before acting on it.

I'm Team Cheryl (Good luck with the Brits cannot wait for her to perform)
xx
Comment by Emma on February 16 14:47

leave him and dont look back! IF half of what is printed is true he will ever learn his lesson and clearly thinks he can carry on as he likes, dump him sharpish and find somebody who is actually worth having, somebody who doesnt think publically humiliating his wife is ok.
Comment by katie on February 16 14:55

Hmmm...we c...
Old texts....now..new news..??
We c...
Up to them what they do.... Up for Best British Single..Good Grief....
Comment by anon on February 16 14:57

I think Ashley has totally abused the trust that Cheryl has given him, but then again there is always too sides to a story and the media are always quick to create scandal, but do they actually promote the "truth" or merley what sells papers!!!

Hmmm
Comment by fit21red on February 16 14:59

Unbelievable that he is at it again. He is married to one of the most gorgeous women in the world and still isn't satisfied. More fool him!
You go girl, get yourself someone who knows how to treat a lady.
Comment by june5370 on February 16 15:09

Cheryl, You could get anyone you wish, never accept second best, you wouldn't accept it from any other area in your life, certainly dont in your marriage. Your husband is insignificant next to you, you must get rid of him and dont be a doormat like John Terry's wifr.
Comment by Hilary on February 16 15:39

leave him.
i did same mistake, coming back to b* that didn't deserve me, but he was only same sh * again and again..
but she needs to find the strength in herself to move on.. and i know how hard that is..
you love only once and all the rest is something like love
Comment by lilly on February 16 15:51

I say get rid now. Once a cheat always a cheat. What kind of excuse is it to say the texts didn't mean to get sent to a busty glamour model!!!!
Matt are you his brother??? Why are you defending the w*nker
Comment by poor girl on February 16 17:04

She should definitely leave him - he got away with it once and has proved now that he can't be trusted again. She could do a million times better, I'm sure any man in the country would have her!
Comment by Becks on February 16 17:51

Every marriage is different, but unfortunately people can not change. I divorced my husband for adultery 3yrs ago and the children were very young, but the problems started with texting and flirting and led on to other things. Cheryl should get out now before she has a baby, and before he passes her on a nasty STI! She is beautiful, but if she stays with him her looks will fade (not helped by stress) and the public will tire of her, and then he will probably trade her in for a younger woman anyhow. Divorce him!!
Comment by Jane on February 16 18:06

He dosent deserve her and she is way too good looking for him, persoanlly if it was my man i would get rid!!! He done it b4 and has proved he will do it again....
Comment by Cheryl fan on February 16 19:41

Get rid of him, he is a prat, he does not know when he has a good thing going.
Comment by Dave G on February 17 06:59

He wont change this is the second time he has been caught out? Cheryl should walk away, she tried but he keeps letting her down again and again. I agree that everyone is entitled to a second chance he has had that over and over again and still humiliates her.

Comment by clare goltz on February 17 07:34

stay with him
Comment by agathayy on February 17 09:18

Your life is NOT about Ashley Cole. Staying with him means living foolish and miserable life. It is time to WAKE UP Cheryl and accept the facts. Good luck to you!!!
Comment by Daniela on February 17 09:58

Sometimes its hard to realise that he just doesn't love you anymore. He doesn't!
Comment by bea on February 17 11:46

she has only stayed with him for publicity think about it she was just a girls aloud member before marrying him. with all the scandals she has got a bigger career. likwise with this scandal she'll get bigger too. publicity that is why she hasnt left. she wouldnt be even half as famous as she is now if it wasnt for ashley and all the publicity.
Comment by Frankie on February 17 19:19

LEAVE HIM!!!!
Comment by chizzie on March 08 17:21

DONT WORRY CHERYL YOU CAN DO BETTER
Comment by Maria on July 14 21:03